The Prince of Trouble

Finally, I’ve put together the photos for Jayden’s 11th year of existence. He turned 11 last October, so I am… umm… 5 months late. Only. Wink!


Jayden, 2 months after his 11th birthday, at Mawlynnong, aka “Asia’s cleanest village”, Meghalaya, India

What can I say, Jayden? You’re 11 going on 12, and you’ve started secondary school. Why, oh why, do you keep doing the darndest things, that’ll get you (and us) into trouble?!??? I have a long list of those… Shall I let the list fly?? No?? OK, but on one condition… From now on, please THINK, use your BRAIN, before you friggin do, or say something! And grow up already, willya? We love you lots. Hope you’ll grow up into a responsible boy, who’ll know how to take care of the people and the things around you. Hope you’ll be loving and kind, well-mannered and considerate. That you’ll be hardworking, and know how to focus on the important stuff first (rather than waste time on clutter and nonsense). Hope you’ll be organized and self-driven. Hope you’ll be righteous and brave. Hope you’ll never be greedy, or boastful. Hope you’ll be smart and resourceful. Hope that when life throws you its problems, you’ll have the grit to persevere, and never give up. With lots of love, Papa. OK, here goes the recap.


A month plus after his 11th birthday, at the Address Beach Residence Hotel, Dubai, with his koko. Jayden was performing in the school choir for a pre-Christmas function at the hotel


Winter break 2024 – A visit to his mother’s home in India! Jayden with 2 of his cousins, Mahi (left) and Anshu (middle), Fulertal, Assam, India


Back to Dubai, and to school – Here he is with 2 of his school friends, Vivaan (left) from India, and Aryan (middle) from Iran, Metropole School, Dubai, Feb 2025


It’s camping season! Jayden with a blue lizard at our regular camping spot, Wadi Shawka, Ras Al-Khaimah, UAE


What’s Eid without a trip to Oman? (That’s what we’ve been doing for the last few years… including this year!) Jayden with 2 friends he met in the guesthouse that we stayed in, the Alshumukh Guesthouse, Qalhat, Oman, Mar 2025. The kids are Polish, but they reside in Jordan. The older one is Yager (pronounced 'ya-zher' it may not be spelt like that, it’ll probably begin with a ‘J’), and the younger one is Franco… We asked Franco where he’s from and he said he’s from 'ospital' (hospital)… ‘Be nice!’ Franco would say to his older brother…


Jayden dressed up for …what’s it for?? For his prom!??. When did Year 6s start having proms??! Oh, so, it’s the last year of primary school! I see! May 2025


His koko is back from Singapore for the midyear break. Here they are with mommy at Dragonmart 2, Jun 2025


The end of Jayden’s academic year means lots of school functions. He won 4th place for the Arabic Reading Competition (for non-native speakers)! Bravo, keep it up!


It’s the summer break! On the go again. Jayden, at the Great Wall of China (Mutianyu). A stopover at Beijing, China en route to Malaysia, Jul 2025


Here we are again, Malaysia! At the Floating Mosque of Kota Kinabalu, Sabah, Malaysia


With his grandpa and aunt at Empat Sekawan Restaurant, Butterworth, Malaysia – Malaysia’s all about food! Seriously, we’d kill ourselves from overeating if we stayed any longer in Malaysia


Some family visits! With his second cousins (children of his father’s cousins), Ginny and Eugene (I think… I hope I got them right), at Jayden’s father’s old home in Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia, Aug 2025


More family! With his favourite uncle now, Jack (they got lost talking about fish and marine life, Jack is an avid diver, among other things…) at a restaurant in Petaling Jaya (Kean Fatt Restaurant), Selangor, Malaysia


More Malaysian holidays – in the old town of Melaka, the place that gave the olden Sultanate of Malacca and the famous Straits of Malacca its name...


And finally, his 11th birthday party at home! Be nice!! Be good! Love you.

A Grand Malaysian Home Trip

Whew, finally, a little relaxation. Work has been really busy since I last wrote.

And… here are the family photos of our recent home trip to Malaysia! I’ll let the photos speak.


Jayden with his granddad, for a dim-sum breakfast at the Sweet Paradise Restaurant, Butterworth, near Dad’s home, on our last day before we left Malaysia to come back to Dubai. Dad, you’re doing just fine. Don’t let your pesky ailment and age bear you down! Keep it up.

We started our Malaysia home trip this time in Sabah! My first ever visit to the state, in my 55 years of life! Believe it or not! We were there to visit the state, and to climb Mount Kinabalu. (What? It’s the highest mountain in Malaysia, it features in the Malaysian 100-ringgit currency note, it’s the landmark of Sabah, and it’s interesting). (But I didn’t know before this, how expensive it is!?!!! And how much training you’d need. Basically, you’re paying big bucks, to suffer, hah! But I have no regrets. I’m glad I did it when I still can). We climbed with Jason, while Jayden stayed with Dad and Hazel who also flew to Sabah for a visit at the same time. Initially, cousin June was also supposed to climb, but she backed out because she sprained her back.


Ready to go?? Breakfast at Kinabalu Park’s Liwagu Restaurant with Anu and Jason before the climb. Kinabalu Park Headquarters is at 1,520m above sea level. We gotta reach our base camp at 3,273m sea level on that day. C’mon, let’s get on with it!


After a short minivan ride to the gate (3km), and an arduous 6km continuously uphill hike (which took only, ummm… 5 hours), we arrived at Panalaban! Our base camp at 3273m above sea level, where we’d rest and stay for the night… before starting our climb to the summit at the ungodly hour of 2 friggin am! (Yup, you’d have to, bcoz you gotta reach some checkpoints at certain times, or you’d not be allowed to progress further. That’s to gauge the fitness of climbers, according to our official guide, and to prevent them from either being stuck up there, or having to climb down at night). Jason was our informal guide as he’s climbed quite a few times before (our actual guide seemed to always take time off, to ‘energize’). Thanks Jason, for the hiking sticks! It really helped (Jason didn’t need them!)


We made it! The summit (Low’s Peak), 4095m above sea level. Thank you, God, for the favourable conditions, and the energy to do it…


Our group, and the Southern Peak, Mount Kinabalu, Sabah


From Sabah, we headed home to Penang state, on the other side of Malaysia! Here’s our first dinner after arriving in Butterworth, at Tokyo Restaurant. At that time, there was a rare blackout, which explains the photo’s grainy quality, but the food was delicious! Prawns, squid, chicken and kangkong (if I remember correctly)

There we go again, to KL, Malaysia’s good ol’ capital. It’s ages since we stepped foot on Kuala Lumpur, but we decided to do a trip this time. (We were partly there to get Anu a Chinese tourist visa, for our 12-hour stopover in Chengdu, China on our way back to Dubai, and the visa centre happens to be in… KL! Where else?)


Here, we are with the KL side of the family, the first time we’ve had a gathering in KL after our beloved Jikor passed away. From left, Cousin June; her ‘boyfriend’, Wesley; June’s daughter, Jamie; Cousin Jane; and us. June treated us to a big, fat, KL Chinese dinner, complete with sang-har noodle (giant river prawns noodles, ...must have been friggin expensive), Iberico ham ribs, a deep-fried whopper of a grouper (a fish which Wesley caught), etc, etc, etc… At Sweet Inn Restaurant, Petaling Jaya, Selangor


We stayed a night, actually, 2 nights, at Jane’s apartment in TTDI, KL. (June was shifting houses at that time). Really nice environment, quiet, surrounded by trees, nice view, overzealous security… Jane stays there with her little poodle, Tidbit. Cheers Chi-chi! Thanks for the hospitality!


Jayden made a new friend, Tidbit, Jane’s dog. It’s the first time that he’s actually close to a dog. He used to be scared of dogs. Now, he keeps asking us to visit KL again, to see Tidbit, and his aunts, and uncle, etc… In front of Artisan Roast / Dusun, TTDI


Another dinner with the KL family, this time with Cousin Jack. Hello bro, long time no see leh! Another fabulous dinner, complements of June. (Aiyo, June-chi, why so much? She tends to over-order, according to her family). Jayden got off really well with Jack, both of them marine life enthusiasts! At Kean Fatt Restaurant, SS3, Petaling Jaya


Heading to our hometown, Ipoh, to see the folks there! Here we were, with Dad and Hazel, fattening ourselves (again), with Malay and Nyonya kueh! At O’Days, Canning Garden, near our Ipoh home. Malaysia will seriously kill us, with food. Luckily, we don’t stay there long term…


Here’re the Ipoh folks we met. My cousin Ah Yi (Ng Wei Yi), my mom’s youngest brother’s daughter, and her family. Her 2 kids are Eugene (far right, who’s now taller than both her parents) and Ginnie (beside Anu)


Tua Pek, lu ho bo? Tua Pek, dad’s eldest brother, is 90 years old this year. At the Moonlight Care Centre, in Canning Garden, Ipoh


And that’s Tua Kor (seated in the middle), dad’s eldest sister. She’s 91. Behind her, is my cousin Kok Leong, flanked by his wife and son


Finally, all good things trips must come to an end eventually. Back in Butterworth, to get ready for our flight home from Penang’s airport. A dim-sum breakfast (yes, again) at Thong Sum Restaurant. Dim-sum’s become one of Anu’s favourite for breakfast! She’s not very Indian as you can see…

The only one missing this time was Justin. Study hard son, stay focused, manage your time properly, keep active, eat, sleep and play (when you have time) well. We love and miss you lots. See you in Dubai at the end of the year!

That sums up our recent cross-country Malaysian home trip. See ya!

A Foodful Trip Back Home

Ahhhhh…. Scrumptious Malaysian fusion food, at Kafe Empat Sekawan, Butterworth, Malaysia – Jul 2024

Did it! Here’re all the valuable family photos of our recent trip back home!

It looks like it’s all about food, but it’s more than that. (Although, I admit that we’ve been heaping up on the cholesterol… ahem. Can’t help it. There’s just so much variety, everywhere, and for a fraction of the cost of what you’ll have to pay in friggin Dubai). (No wonder, Malaysia’s the most obese country in South East Asia!!! Sez some report. Not something to be proud of unfortunately). Amazing, how dad and his siblings remained so thin…


First breakfast of our Malaysia trip …Dim Sum at Thong Sum Restaurant, Butterworth. Eat up dad! Match our size, haha!


We, at Gurney Bay, Penang, a new park built on reclaimed land along Gurney Drive. Right after our medical check-ups in the Penang Adventist Hospital. We, typically do a full body check-up, when we visit Malaysia. Dad, Anu and I did it. Hazel was supposed to do it, but opted out due to her period. The results were OK, luckily. (It would’ve been worse, if we did it a week later, looking at all the food that we gorged down in the week ahead, ahem). I prefer the old Gurney Drive promenade to this reclaimed, ‘sanitized’ version. The old promenade was cooler, ermmm… more natural.


More food!! At the famous Teksen Restaurant, Penang …where you’d have to queue up to get a place, even at 5-ish pm. Don’t believe me? Go visit yourself. Heck, even the tourists queued up (it must have featured in some tourist guide). Right behind us in the queue, was a Dutch couple on holiday.


Visiting the Ipoh family. Meet Tuapek, dad’s eldest brother, at the Moonlight Care Centre Old Folks Home. Tuapek is the ‘delinquent’ of the home, well-known for his exploits of trying to escape. Don’t blame him. What’s an old man gotta do to get some freedom? His children visit, but they stay overseas, unfortunately. He’s got a little ‘behavioural dementia’ according to the home. We saw a little of that on the first time we met him, but on the second and third, he was lucidly clear. Just didn’t like the lack of freedom in the home, he said… Pity him, I hope he gets a better deal soon


And this is Tuakor, dad’s eldest sister, 90 years old this year (a year older than tuapek), with son, daughter-in-law, and grandson. Still strong, but thin as a reed. Sure hope they’ll eat more. If only I could give them some of my excess fat…


Ah Yee, my cousin sister from mom’s side, with husband and son, at our Canning Garden old house. Thanks for pandering to my last-minute plea for meeting up!!!


Looking for food in Ipoh. Dad’s a stickler for the tried and tested. But all his favourite food shops were closed! Maybe because it’s a week day. We ended up in Concubine Lane (near where dad grew up in Ipoh), and tried a new restaurant, at our prompting, The One Café, that specializes in Chee Cheong Fun, with multiple flavours that you could choose from. Not bad! “Get out of the way, Jayden!” The photo-bomber of the family strikes again.


Back in Butterworth… another new restaurant, again at my prompting, hehe - King Kong Ramen. See, it ain’t bad, right?


Cheers! First time, in a long time that we had a drink in a pub! The Beer Factory, Butterworth, P Pinang, Malaysia


Time to go! So quick. – Penang Airport. Sure wish we had more time. Hope to visit again soon! Stay strong, stay happy!


We’re in Singapore! Hello Justin! We miss you! The Jewel, Changi Airport, Singapore – Aug 2024


Time to tuck in, again. With Jason, at Tai Er Restaurant, a mainland Chinese restaurant which specializes in… wait for it. …Chinese Sauerkraut Fish! Sauerkraut?!? What’s sauerkraut doing in a Chinese restaurant? Sauerkraut’s a friggin German thing! Wait, ooh, it’s only ‘suancai’ or what we called ‘kiam-chai’ in Hokkien (salted vegetable). Kiam-chai therng (salted vegetable soup) was a pretty common dish we had at home, growing up. But who’d have thought of pairing it up with fish! But it obviously worked, or it wouldn’t have grown into this big a restaurant chain, with branches all over! This is their Singapore Jewel Branch. Thanks, Jason, for the treat!


Another meal. This time a Korean barbecue. So that the kids could serve us for a change, haha. They loved the cooking! Seorae Korean BBQ, Compass One, Singapore


Hey guys, family photo time! At Compass One (near Jason’s flat), Singapore, before we fly back to Dubai!

That’s it for our short trip, with lots of errands, but we managed to squeeze in a road trip to Tioman Island, hehe. More on that next time. See ya!

Remembering My Hometown

Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia – Jul 2022

It’s Chinese New Year! The biggest festival of my childhood years. How I remember those times, when the whole of my father’s side of the family would converge in our house in Ipoh for CNY (because my granny and grandpa were staying with us, hehe).

There’d be all the silly games we kids played (I have lots of cousins, growing up. My father has 5 siblings, and then there’s mom’s side, and my parents’ cousins’ families), firecrackers, card games, etc. We could eat till we gag. We could break ‘curfew’ and stay up late. Gamble a little, and drink a little (when we were older). And we could get loads of ANGPOWs! $$$ Ka-ching! We’d be festive for at least 2 weeks (CNY is 15 days, OK?) and our biggest day isn’t actually the first day of New Year but the 8th and 9th day, being Hokkiens. Those were the days.

Sadly, the Ipoh house is an empty house now, and not many of the family still reside in Ipoh. Many of the old folks have left us and gone to the world beyond. My siblings and cousins have all gone their separate ways to make a living elsewhere and start families. They’re all over the world now. But Ipoh still brings back loads of memories.

Here’re some photos of Ipoh from our last visit in Aug 2022. Happy New Year! Gong Xi Fa Cai! Koung Hey Fat Choi! Kiong Hi Huat Cai! Etc, etc, etc.

We decided to climb (walk up, to be more precise) a hill near Ipoh, from my childhood years – Kledang Hill, in Menglembu. The last I remembered climbing this hill was with my mom when I was a kid. That may be 40 years ago, because my mom passed away in 1985. To climb the hill, we’d wake up in the wee hours of the morning and get there before sun breaks. We’d walk as much as we could, then head down to Menglembu town to get an early breakfast at 7+am! if I remember correctly. We’d do this to avoid the relentless midday sun. Malaysia has a hot and humid climate after all, being a tropical rainforest.


Canning Garden, our suburb – That hill in the background, is Kledang Hill


We’re there! A view of Ipoh City from Kledang Hill. We got there before sun break! It’s full of clouds. It may rain at any time


It’s raining. We forgot to bring umbrellas. Anu’s smart. She brought a rain coat. “There! That’s the summit. Let’s go on”


The road at Bukit Kledang


We’re drenched. I think we’d stop here. We don’t know how much more there is to go, to the summit. Can’t check maps because there’s no coverage and it’s bloody raining… (Later on, I checked and found out that we were only about 1.4km short of the summit. We could’ve got there in 30 mins!)


Let’s head down. Whew, the rain’s stopped. Anu at a mini waterfall






Someone’s made a garden here! Fancy that


Monkeys out to play, at the car park


Back in Canning Garden. This is our neighbour, Auntie Nancy’s house. She loves leaves, as you can see


More of Auntie Nancy’s garden. We have the same swing in our house, next door. I think it comes with the house as all of our neighbours have the same swing. And that big urn which Jayden is looking at, we used to have one in the Ipoh house’s bathroom that I took a bath from when I was a kid. We took baths with a mug. It’s nice!

One sad news from our neighbourhood recently – our other next-door neighbour, Mr Leong, passed away last month. He had been sick for some time. The Leongs were teachers in my school, the Ipoh Anglo-Chinese School. Mr Leong was once the head-master. Mrs Leong lives alone now in the house. But one of their children lives in Ipoh and visits regularly. God bless them.

Anyway, Happy New Year! May your Dragon Year be filled with success, joy, good health and prosperity!