Monday, 20 November 2023

Jayden on His Own


Jayden, 8 years & 4 months old, at Al Hafiya Picnic Park, Kalba, UAE, Feb 2023

Jayden is 9 years old! (As of last month, actually). This is my yearly post about the kid’s life, but before I go into it, here’s some GOOD NEWS!!!

Amrita, Anu’s sister, who is in Canada, just gave birth to a healthy baby girl!!! This is wonderful news for the family indeed, especially after a heart-breaking earlier pregnancy 2 years ago, that resulted in the birth of an extremely premature baby boy, who sadly did not survive. That pregnancy was complicated because of fibroids in Amrita’s womb, and all were worried about whether the fibroids would pose a problem for future pregnancies. Thank God for answering our prayers. Praise God. Jayden has a new cousin!

As I was saying, Jayden is 9 now, but he’s still behaving like a baby, sigh… Maybe, we give him too much love, or maybe it’s just the nature of him being the youngest in the family. Nope, it’s definitely too much love, so we gotta get tough and start being serious-er…

This past year, he was pretty much on his own, for a change. His elder brother left for further studies in Singapore last Nov, exactly one year before. I think it did Jayden some good. At least, he started having his own friends, instead of hanging out only with his koko and his koko’s friends. (Thanks a lot to his mommy actually, who helped him build up his courage, and arranged play dates). Here’s a recap of his past year. Enjoy!


A temple visit, with his Mommy and Koko for some divine blessings, before his Koko left for Singapore. This was like a week after Jayden’s 8th birthday – Dubai Hindu Temple, Jebel Ali, Dubai – Oct 2022


Jayden on his own, his first time attending a friend’s birthday party! (As far as I can remember). In contrary, Justin had attended countless birthday parties by the time he was this age. The birthday boy was Mosaab (the one in red) from Egypt. He’s the youngest brother of Justin’s 2 school mates, and they lived in a unit on the same floor of our apartment building. At The Zone, Circle Mall, Jumeirah Village Circle, Dubai – Nov 2022


Our first camping trip without Justin. Good morning, Jayden! How do you feel being on your own? (He missed his Koko). At some random suitable camping spot by the road near Ain Lighmour (aka Blossom Valley), Fujairah (Google Maps calls it Jabal Al Haleefah). The missus is pretty good at picking camping spots, when we need one (like when sun is setting, and yours truly hasn’t got a clue yet of what to do…) We were all alone for as far as the eye could see. It isn’t really a popular camping spot I think, but we’re no longer strangers to lonely camping spots, hehe – Nov 2022


This ain’t a pool, believe me!! It’s all natural and it’s in Arabia! Oman, to be exact. We made a 1200+ km road trip to Salalah, Oman (and another 1200 km back) during the UAE’s National Day holidays last year. This is a gem of a place in the Arabian Peninsula. Waterfalls in Arabia?!? Yup, it’s true. No wonder it is so popular with the Arabs – Wadi Darbat, Salalah, Oman – Dec 2022


Jayden and his Year 4 Teacher, Mr David Moore, GEMS Metropole School – Dec 2022. (He prefers lady teachers he says. He thinks they’re kinder… Are they?!?)


Back in Oman! We love Oman, ever since they made it free for UAE residents to enter, we’ve made 3 visits in a span of 5 months! – Jebel Akhdar (literally, Green Mountain), Oman – Dec 2022


New Year treat for the little one to his favourite type of place, an aquarium! This is the Sharjah Aquarium to be exact. We’ve visited it before, but what the heck, it’s the most affordable, nice aquarium around! – Sharjah, Jan 2023


Motor City, the name of our neighbourhood, isn’t just a strange name selected from nowhere. Its main feature is the Dubai Autodrome! Apart from this, it has an outdoor and an indoor Kartdromes for go-karting. When there’s a race, it’s a din!! – Jayden at the Dubai Autodrome, Motor City, Dubai – Jan 2023


It’s spring break, and we headed to India, to do our boring banking work and to visit family. Jayden at the Victoria Monument in Kolkata. We’ve visited this place before, a long time ago, before we had kids. But what to do? We’ve visited Kolkata so many times, that we ran out of new places to visit, ahem… West Bengal, India – Mar 2023


Jayden made lots of friends at his Mommy’s village! From left, Mahi (his cousin), Ankit, and Prince (whom Mahi and Jayden kept calling Princess… Jayden, Mahi, you shouldn’t tease your friends!), Fulertal, Assam – Apr 2023


Not Oman again?!? Yes, Oman again. Jebel Akhdar (Green Mountain), again. It’s an interesting mountain, where access is only allowed for 4WD cars (which our trusty ol’ Hyundai happened to be, hehe). It’s a nice, cool place, with beautiful views and treks for as far as your feet can walk… Plus it’s rose harvesting season. Jayden pointing to some fossils, at the Sunset Viewpoint in Jebel Akhdar, Oman – Apr 2023


Yippee, koko’s back! It’s Koko’s school break, and he came back for a visit! Bloomsbury’s Café, Silicon Central Mall, Silicon Oasis, Dubai – Jun 2023


Jayden in Albania on his summer break. Koko’s school break and Jayden’s do not match. Justin’s mid-year school break is from the last week of May to the last week of June. Jayden’s summer break starts from the second week of July! By then, Justin would have been back in Singapore, and preparing for his Term 3 exams. For the summer break, we made a short trip to Albania. This is the first overseas trip we made without Justin – at our hotel, the Logu i Harushave, Theth, Albania – Aug 2023


Jayden made another friend! Daniel from Ukraine at our house. Daniel was staying with his aunt at the exact unit where Mosaab’s family (see third pic above) used to stay. The Egyptians have relocated to Abu Dhabi in April this year. Unfortunately, Daniel also left the UAE for Germany in early October. That’s how it is with the UAE, it’s a halfway home. People come, people go. Hope to see you again sometime, somewhere, Daniel! – Sep 2023


And finally, it’s Jayden’s 9th Birthday! At home! A small party with a few of his friends. Here’s Hardit (left) and Callum (right). Both of them are Indians – Oct 2023

Friday, 10 November 2023

Our Very Own Blue & White

It’s our anniversary! 17 years and going strong! I love you honey.

I’m putting photos of some of the places in Dubai we visited, for a feel of romance. Let’s put it this way, Dubai ain’t really that romantic. The most romantic place I can think of is, ……wait for it…… Home!


Anu, at Sansation, a restaurant/ café at our neighbourhood, Motor City, Dubai

Anyway, many places have been trying to create that blue and white vibe that you associate with the Greek islands and Tunisia’s Sidi Bou Said. It’s a nice combination, I’d say. Is it a colour of romance? I dunno. You tell me. It happens to also be Anu’s favourite colour combination, so much so that she’s painted our village house in Silchar the same colours, although at that time, she’s never been to the Mediterranean. I used to say, “Hey, it’s gonna look like a police station” (that, coincidentally, are also the colours of the Malaysian Police Stations). (How would I know that entire villages and towns in the Mediterranean would be painted like police stations!?!) Dubai has its own versions of blue and white. Here they are. Though, it’s nothing compared to the real stuff! Ahem.


This is our local blue and white – the MotorCity variety


Sansation, Motor City – Jayden was with us. His koko preferred to be at home, planning out his nefarious schemes. …No, actually, most probably watching some ‘nonsense’ in YouTube that we’d normally not allow (when we’re around)






Another blue and white – the Fish Beach Taverna, at the Le Meridien Mena Seyahi Beach Resort, overlooking Palm Jumeirah




Inside the Le Meridien Mina Seyahi, Dubai, UAE




Finally, here’s another effort at copying Europe… the Vincitore Boulevard at Arjan, near Dubai’s Miracle Garden


I dunno what it’s trying to copy. Hey, somebody, does this remind you of anywhere you’ve been before??

That’s it! Short and fast post done. (Luckily, the tender which we had to finish today, was extended by 3 weeks! Hehe.)

Our anniversary this year so happens to coincide with the Hindu Festival, Diwali. Today is Dhanteras, the day that you should buy gold! I guess the goldsmiths are gonna be fully packed today. For those celebrating Diwali, HAPPY DIWALI, HAPPY DEEPAVALI!

Saturday, 4 November 2023

The Search for Water


Al Qawa Water Pond, Wadi Shees, Sharjah, UAE

I’m gonna continue posting on Wadi Shees. It’ll be the easiest since I’ve already got all the photos sorted out way before. It’ll be a super-quick post (I hope). Actually, I am up to my neck with work, with a tender due for submission next weekend! But, what the heck, I still wanna post! (Well, that’s what I've been doing during lunch breaks!) No time to waste, here goes!


The road passing Wadi Shees – We drove past this road the first time in Oct 2020, on our way to Nahwa village. We saw a nice little pool beside the road that said “Drinking Water – Do Not Swim.” In a desert like the UAE, this is a gem! Where could you find clean, natural, standing water just beside a road?!? And so, we decided (actually, I decided, hehe) that we’d explore the village and the water pond the next time, and that’s the story of this post…


We’re back! Wadi Shees, March 2021


Let’s start – Wadi Shees Nature Trail, here we go!


The falaj irrigation system for the date plantation. The aflaj (plural of falaj) is a traditional irrigation system in Arabia. (Since this is supposed to be a short post, please Google it if you wanna find out more)


Whew, there’re quite a lot of stairs to climb! The theme for the day is Yellow! Go Hufflepuff, go!


Date palms surrounded by mountains, Wadi Shees, UAE


The village! Now, where’s the water pond? Let’s head back down towards the main road. There’s a path beside the road that leads to the pond


Here we are. Hey, mommy’s already stone-stepping across the pond! Let’s follow her!


Hahh… We have the whole pond to ourselves, no one thought of coming in?


Al Qawa Water Pond, Wadi Shees. Let’s go. I hear some voices from around. I think people are following our lead


Leaving Wadi Shees. The trees on the plateau above the road is Shees Park, a fairly new park created by the Ruler of Sharjah, to beautify this area. It opened in Oct 2020, on our first visit to the area






Shees Park, complete with artificial waterfall and streams, UAE, Oct 2020. We have the whole park to ourselves because it was a working day! (I was on leave) – Warning: Do not visit on weekends or public holiday! Don't tell me you're not warned.

That concludes another story from our “trapped-in-the-UAE-pandemic” days.