Sunday, 14 March 2021

Where Have All the Playgrounds Gone?


Magic Planet, Mirdif City Centre, 2019

Work has been surprisingly hectic in the past few weeks. No time to rest (yeah, no kidding!). Not bad when there’re still no new Projects, and when the world is still stuck in COVID-mode.

I’m putting in another shortcut express photo blog! Of photos I’ve collected ages ago. But I’ve thrown in a bonus this time, some photos we took at the end of 2020! Here goes, my kiddies’ park post, let the show begin!

This is Oli-Oli, the one and only children’s play park we visited during COVID times…




Toshi’s Net – a humongous web of a net created by Japanese textile artist, Toshiko Macadam, at OliOli Dubai. Justin remembered this net. He had been telling us just how great this net was. Both Justin and Jayden had been to OliOli in their school trips before. Jayden went first. It was, I think, his first ever school trip, when he was in FS1 (first year of kindergarten) in Newlands School. Justin visited when he was much bigger, in Year 4 maybe… with Royal Dubai School…


Museum of the Moon, OliOli Dec 2020


Future Park, of everything digital…


Cars and Ramps, where you can build and test your ‘Lego’ car creations on sky high ramps


The Water Gallery, OliOli – Never imagined washing cars as fun?!? Never liked it, and still don’t. But what do I know, the little ones loved it!

Here’re some other amusement centres / children’s play areas we visited thru the years, which I’ve not posted before. The kids are big fans (obviously), and we’d spent hours just trying to dissuade them, divert their attention, trick them, bribe them, whatever, from visiting… (you think their papa’s money grows on trees?) How many of these amusement centres survived the pandemic? Who knows? We’ve not been back to check them out yet…


Sega Republic, Dubai Mall, 2016 (yup, these are vintage…)


Splash ‘n’ Party, a kids’ water park based in a villa plot in Jumeirah, Dubai, 2016


A water park (and aquarium) we never visited, the Lost Chambers, Atlantis. “No you can’t go in, can’t you see that the doors are closed…” 2017 (it’s mighty expensive, what d’ya think?)


Cheeky Monkey, Etihad Mall, celebrating one of Justin’s classmate’s birthday (Antranik, middle in orange), 2017. Looking back, it’s been a long time since we were last invited to a birthday party…


Jayden on a bouncy castle in the old part of town, Al Fahidi Souq, Bur Dubai, 2019


Fabyland, DragonMart 2, 2019


Another Magic Planet, this one’s in Burjuman, 2019


Fun Block, MotorCity 2019, with the kids’ Jikor (aunt), Hazel in attendance. We used to go to the one in Arabian Centre, before we shifted to MotorCity… The problem with these kids’ play areas, is that they need us adults to be there, all the time, with them?!? What good does that do? Can we jump on the friggin castle?!?

That’s all for now. Gotta get back to work, before it friggin spills over…. Sigh!

Tuesday, 2 March 2021

A Few Good Malls

Why not a pure photo blog? Of malls in Dubai. In my last post, there’re pictures of DragonMart, Burjuman and Dubai Festival City. So, what the heck, here’re more of them. MALLS! After all, we’re friggin stuck in Mall Land! Here goes.

(If you’re wondering why there’re no masks in the photos… these are from before COVID came. In fact, these are from before COVID’s father was even born. Just kidding, they’re 2016-2018. And I snuck in one from 2019, ahem).


From the largest friggin mall in the world, Dubai Mall …Apple Store 2018


Woman in Red, Fashion Avenue Atrium, Dubai Mall 2018


A new mall opens …in 2016! (OK, it’s a little outdated, but what the heck!) City Walk, 2017


Steam engine room or something? Nah, just some mall decorations – Justin with friend Arya, City Walk, 2016 - City Walk is a mixed outdoor and indoor shopping complex


Another new mall open-air shopping complex …Bay Square. This is Dubai, new malls pop up every year! Bay Square, 2018

Now for some conventional malls from the Majid Al Futtaim Group…


Justin playing some Pringles drums, Deira City Centre 2016


Below a big fat dinosaur, Carrefour, Deira City Centre 2017


The signature MoE (Mall of the Emirates), after its renovation (of adding an entire floor!) First time we visited after the renovation, 2018


Rain at Mirdif City Centre 2018

Malls from Nakheel coming up next…


A performance in DragonMart 2, 2018


The Indian Court, Ibn Battuta Mall, 2019

And finally, photos from two other malls…


Ripley’s Believe It or Not! – A Hardware Horse at Wafi City Mall, 2018


The Capitol Building, …made entirely of toothpicks! Ripley’s Exhibition, Wafi Mall 2018


Time for tea… At Shakespeare & Co, Etihad Mall 2017

That’s all for now folks. Ciao!

Saturday, 20 February 2021

Another Low-Key CNY


Gong Xi Fa Cai! Wishing all a Happy & Prosperous (& Safe & Healthy – times have changed, COVID changed EVERYTHING) New Year of the Ox!

Today is Hokkien New Year – or Pai Thni Kong as we call it back in Malaysia. It’s something like a thanksgiving for the Hokkiens (people of Fujian descent who speak the Min Nan dialect in South East Asia). It used to be our grandest festival of the year for our family when I was a kid. I didn’t really know which god we prayed to (and does it matter), only that he’s known as Thni Kong (literally, God of Heaven). There’re no idols in our house, and we prayed only once per year (yeah, no kidding, we weren’t a particularly pious lot) on Pai Thni Kong. That’s the only time in the year, when an altar would be set up facing the outside, with lots of food offerings and joss sticks (incense). And of course, sugarcane on both entrance gate posts of our house, firecrackers and lots of joss paper (spirit money) folded into shapes of gold ingots for offering. Joss paper origami was one my favourite pastimes every New Year (we kids would compete with each other to fold the most ‘gold’).

The last we celebrated was I think 1987. That’s the year granddad passed away, which barred the family from celebrating for the next 3 years. In those 3 years, the majority of our family converted to Christianity (thanks to my dad, he had always been Christian, since before I was born anyway). I only found out that Thni Kong is the Jade Emperor, in my errr… mid-40’s I think, thru Google, what else …

Here’s what we did this New Year in photos (yeah, some current photos for a change). Would never have guessed that this year’s New Year would be quieter than last year, but it is! Here goes!


Cheers! – New Year breakfast at our balcony – Notice the hookah? That’s one of the parts of Arabia we adopted…




Reunion Dinner 2021 – Anu strikes again. ALL THIS for our tiny family of 4?!? Honey, you said you’d cook less? …She can’t help it, it’s festival mah… She loves festivals!




Some photos from the outside – DragonMart CNY 2021

I might as well throw in some CNY photos of last year…


Dubai Festival City, CNY 2020


A ‘Chinese’ dance and acrobatic performance CNY 2020 …Wait! Hmmm… they don’t look Chinese! Only wearing Chinese costumes, must be Russian. The organizers must have been unable to organize any Chinese performers last CNY, as it was at the peak of China’s COVID lockdown last year. That’s just my guess – Town Square Nshama Dubai, CNY 2020




City Walk Dubai, CNY 2020


Anu, CNY 2020, Burjuman


Jayden met his assistant teacher of his old school (Newlands School), Ms Balisado (left) from the Philippines, Burjuman, Dubai


Burjuman 2020 - Gong Xi Fa Cai!

Wednesday, 10 February 2021

In My Grandfather’s Time


A back lane in Ipoh’s Old Town, Perak, Malaysia


Mural at a car park in Ipoh’s Old Town showing different stages of Kopi-O (black coffee) being consumed in a Malaysian takeaway plastic bag

It's Chinese New Year! Gong Xi Fa Cai, Happy New Year everyone! Kinda miss home. In the short 1.5 years between my last visit home in mid-2019 and now, I’ve lost 3 dear ones in Ipoh, my hometown. 3 people I used to visit on every trip home to Ipoh, my po-po (maternal grandmother), my ah-mm (aunt, wife of my dad’s eldest brother) and my friend and ex-colleague, Ajit. They’ve all gone on to a better place. God bless their souls.

Gonna post some photos of Ipoh. Ipoh’s old town to be exact. (By the way, for the non-Malaysians, Ipoh is the capital of the State of Perak, Malaysia). This was where our family started… in the late 1920’s. That was when my grandpa (father’s side) (1906 – 1987) arrived from China to what was then British Malaya. I heard that he came with only the clothes on his back, and a primary school education. He is of Hokkien (Fujian) descent. He met and married my grandma (1917 – 2010), a ‘local’ girl of Chinese descent, circa 1933. My grandma’s family was also of Hokkien descent but had been in Malaya a lot earlier, like at least two generations earlier, and therefore the Hokkien is distinguishingly different, with a lot of Malay loan words. (By the way, the Hokkien dialects in China also differ from county to county. I have no idea which county my grandpa or grandma’s families originate from). My grandmother’s mother (my great-grandma, whom I had the opportunity to meet when I was a toddler), was also Malayan-born, and her mother (my great-great grandmother) was Siamese (Thai). My grandma was born and brought up in a village called Enggor aka Karai, near the banks of the Perak River, and was totally Malaysianized in living style and food. She was what you’d call a Nyonya / Peranakan girl (Malaysianized Chinese), wearing sarong kebaya as her normal attire, with her hair left long and tied up in a bun (‘sanggui’ – after the Malay word ‘sanggul’) secured with a pin. She used to eat with her hands (rather than chopsticks – she only learnt how to use chopsticks after she married) and watched Malay shadow puppet plays (wayang kulit) in her village.

Anyway, to cut the story short, grandpa eventually had a family and built up a business in Ipoh old town selling salted fish and dried seafood, and was at one time, pretty affluent. He was one of the towkays (boss) in town who could own a car (not many could do that in those times). But unfortunately, he didn’t stay rich for very long. He invested in the wrong things you could say, including a second wife and created a rift in the family. The family split up, and eventually grandpa ended up staying alone in a rented room in Ipoh town. In his later years, grandpa moved back in with us, in my dad’s house in Ipoh. Grandma had always stayed with us, but although they were in the same house together, grandpa and grandma never spoke to each other, till the day he died. Tragic. Here’s more of the story in pictures…


The Games Room of the Han Chin Pet Soo (Hanchin Villa), headquarters of a Hakka Tin Miners’ Club, which is now a museum of sorts in Ipoh’s Old Town. Grandpa’s shop was in this part of town


Jayden lifting a bag of tin ore, Han Chin Pet Soo, Ipoh – Ipoh was a town built on tin-mining. Malaya was once the largest producer of tin in the world. During its tin-mining heydays, so many towkays in Ipoh became rich that Ipoh gained the nickname "the City of Millionaires”. Heck, there used to be a huge Mercedes Benz logo on a hill when you approach the city from the south (Kuala Lumpur), and it’s even lighted up at night. I guess this must be because there’re so many Mercedes Benz owners in Ipoh then…


Photos of old tin miners of Hakka descent. So that’s where the Ipoh road names come from Jalan Yau Tet Shin, Foo Yet Kai, Lee Kwee Foh, Lau Pak Khuan, Leong Sin Nam, Chung Thye Phin, etc. How come we never read of them in our Malaysian history books? – Wiki-ing it, I found the history quite interesting. It’s something like America’s Wild West, only that this is the Orient’s Wild South, when Chinese ‘pioneers’ explored the southern seas and opened up new frontiers for their native overlords. In the case of Malaya, it’s for the Malay princes and the British. Heck, the rivalry between the competing teams of tin-miners in the Sultanate of Perak in Malaya became so intense that it culminated in 4 wars in the 1800’s between the two main gangs, the Ghee Hin Society and the Hai San Society, backed by rival Malay princes (the Larut Wars). This eventually led to an intervention by the British and the subsequent British colonization of Perak (same old story all over the world). The old man in the middle of the photo above, the one in mandarin robes, that’s Chung Keng Quee, the leader of the Hai San during the Larut Wars. He looks like someone not to be meddled with, huh? If only someone can make a movie of the Larut Wars…


The main hall of the Han Chin Pet Soo – Pet Soo is the Hakka pronunciation of Villa. While my father’s side of the family are all Hokkien, my mom’s family is Hakka. Too bad I don’t know much about my mom’s side of the family, as she died long ago when I was 15 years old. But I remember we had relatives in Ipoh and Menglembu. Menglembu is predominantly Hakka and so are many villages surrounding Ipoh like Pusing. Ipoh, on the other hand is predominantly Cantonese-speaking


Reliving the past, Han Chin Pet Soo, Ipoh


Our Jiko (meaning dad’s second eldest sister) in Concubine Lane, Old Town, Ipoh – This small lane in the heart of old town is nicknamed Concubine Lane, 二奶巷 (yee-lai-hong in Cantonese) because many towkays in the past had more than one wife, and this lane was where many of the mistresses stayed. Some towkays had like 7 wives – Don’t believe me? Check out Chung Thye Phin. Maybe that’s why my grandpa also tried having more than one wife, but it proved to be his undoing unfortunately… My Jiko in her youth used to be a socialite and hung out with the other socialites of Ipoh in those days, like the mum of Michelle Yeoh (actress and ex Miss Malaysia) who hailed from Ipoh. Interesting huh?


This street art is on a lane just beside Concubine Lane


Here’re the kids at our old house in Canning Garden, Ipoh. This was where I grew up and where my mom, grandpa and grandma lived their last days… It used to be filled with noise and people, because we lived as an extended family. It’s an empty house now, as we’ve all grown up and moved out. Jipek who used to live here even after Granny passed away, is now in an old folk’s home…


The kids and their Jiko-po, Canning Garden house, Ipoh

OK, here’s something totally unrelated. This was a place in old town we stumbled into – a silly upside down house. Some optical illusions won’t harm anyone, right?






Defying gravity, at the Upside Down House, Ipoh

Before I go, GONG XI FA CAI everyone! Here’s to wishing you all a Happy, Prosperous, Peaceful, Safe and Healthy Chinese New Year. Changing the slogan to match the times. And peaceful is the only way it’s gonna be, with all the movement restrictions in place because of COVID-19…